2016-44 Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna by "M": Rules for Householders
From The Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna by "M" Chapter
20
Influence
of company
Will-power
needed for renunciation
Master
denounces hypocrisy
The ideal
of a spiritual family
Different
forms of austerity
Rules for
concentration
The
Eternal Religion
March 23,
1884
From The Gospel of Sri Ramakrishna by "M" Chapter
20
RULES FOR HOUSEHOLDERS
Sunday,
March 9, 1884
Sri
Ramakrishna was sitting in his room at Dakshineswar with many devotees.
Influence
of company
Master
(to the devotees): "I visited the
museum once. I was shown fossils. A whole animal has become
stone! Just see what an effect has been produced by company! Likewise, by
constantly living in the company of a holy man one verily becomes holy."
Spiritual
discipline
"What
are the spiritual disciplines that give the mind its upward direction? One
learns all this by constantly living in holy company. The rishis of olden
times lived either in solitude or in the company of holy persons; therefore
they could easily renounce 'woman and gold' and 'fix their minds on God.
They had no fear nor did they mind the criticism of others.
Will-power
needed for renunciation
"In
order to be able to renounce, one must pray to God for the will power to do
so. One must immediately renounce what one feels to be unreal. The
rishis had this will-power. Through it they controlled the
sense-organs. If the tortoise once tucks in its limbs, you cannot make it
bring them out even by cutting it into four pieces.
Master
denounces hypocrisy
"The
worldly man is a hypocrite. He cannot be guileless. He professes to
love God, but he is attracted by worldly objects. He doesn't give God
even a very small part of the love he feels for 'woman and gold'. But he
says that he loves God. (To Mani Mallick) Give up hypocrisy."
The ideal
of a spiritual family
"A wife endowed with spiritual wisdom is a real partner in life. She
greatly helps her husband to follow the religious path. After the birth
of one or two children they live like brother and sister. Both of them
are devotees of God - His servant and His handmaid. Their family is a
spiritual family. They are always happy with God and His devotees.
"The
longing of the worldly-minded for God is momentary, like a drop of water on a
red-hot frying-pan. The water hisses and dries up in an instant.
The attention of the worldly-minded is directed to the enjoyment of worldly
pleasure. Therefore they do not feel yearning and restlessness for God.
Different
forms of austerity
"People
may observe the ekadasi in three ways. First, the 'waterless'
ekadasi-they are not permitted to drink even a drop of water. Likewise,
an all-renouncing religious mendicant completely gives up all forms of
enjoyment. Second, while observing the ekadasi they take milk and
sandesh. Likewise, a householder devotee keeps in his house simple
objects of enjoyment. Third, while observing the ekadasi they eat luchi
and chakka. They eat their fill.
"A
man may live in a mountain cave, smear his body with ashes, observe fasts; and
practise austere discipline; but if his mind dwells on worldly objects, on
'woman and gold', I say, 'Shame on him!' But I say that a man is blessed indeed
who eats, drinks, and roams about, but who keeps his mind free from 'woman and
gold'.
Rules for
concentration
Manilal:
"Well, what is the rule for concentration? Where should one
concentrate?"
Master: "The heart is a splendid place. One can meditate
there or in the Sahasrara. These are rules for meditation given in the
scriptures. But you may meditate wherever you like. Every place is
filled with Brahman-Consciousness. Is there any place where It does
not exist? Narayana, in Bhali's presence, covered with two steps the heavens,
the earth, and the interspaces. Is there then any place left uncovered by
God? A dirty place is as holy as the bank of the Ganges. It is said that the
whole creation is the Virat, the Universal Form of God.
The
Eternal Religion
Master: "The Eternal Religion, the religion of the rishis, has been
in existence from time out of mind and will exist eternally. There exist
in this Sanatana Dharma all forms of worship - worship of God with form and
worship of the Impersonal Deity as well. It contains all paths - the path
of knowledge, the path of devotion, and so on. Other forms of religion,
the modern cults, will remain for a few days and then disappear."
March 23,
1884
Man
teaches by God's power
"I
once asked Keshab, 'Why have you written about me?' He said that it would bring
people here. But man cannot teach by his own power. One cannot
conquer ignorance without the power of God. He who teaches men gets his power from
God. None but a man of renunciation can teach others.
"To
realize God is the one goal of life. While aiming his arrow at the mark,
Arjuna said, 'I see only the eye of the bird and nothing else - not the kings,
not the trees, not even the bird itself.'
Ram:
"I understand that Kedār Babu has recently visited the Kartabhajas'
place."
Master: "He gathers honey from various flowers. (To Ram,
Nityagopal, and the others) If a devotee believes one hundred per cent that his
Chosen Ideal is God, then he attains God and sees Him.
"People
of bygone generations had tremendous faith. What faith Haladhāri's father
had! Once he was on the way to his daughter's house when he noticed some
beautiful flowers and vilwa-leaves. He gathered them for the worship of
the Family Deity and walked back five or six miles to his own house.
"When
my father walked along the lanes of the village wearing his wooden sandals, the
shopkeepers would stand up out of respect and say, 'there he comes!' When he
bathed in the Haldārpukur, the villagers would not have the courage to get into
the water. Before bathing they would inquire if he had finished his
bath.
"Very
strong was the faith of the people in those days. One hears that God used
to dance then, taking the form of Kāli, while the devotee clapped his hands
keeping time."
Signs
of Knowledge
MASTER: "There are two signs of knowledge. First, an
unshakable buddhi. No matter how many sorrows, afflictions, dangers, and
obstacles one may be faced with, one's mind does not undergo any change.
It is like the blacksmith's anvil, which receives constant blows from the
hammer and still remains unshaken. And second, manliness-very strong
grit. If lust and anger injure a man, he must renounce them once for
all. If a tortoise once tucks in its limbs, it won't put them out again
though you may cut it into four pieces.
Advantage of a householder's life
"You
are leading a householder's life. That is very good. It is like
fighting from a fort. There are many disadvantages in fighting in an open
field. So many dangers, too. Bullets may hit you.
"But
one should spend some time in solitude and attain Knowledge. Then one can
lead the life of a householder. Janaka lived in the world after attaining
Knowledge. When you have gained it, you may live anywhere. Then
nothing matters."
Mahima:
"Sir, why does a man become deluded by worldly objects?"
Master: "It is because he lives in their midst without having
realized God. Man never succumbs to delusion after he has realized
God. The moth no longer enjoys darkness if it has once seen the light.
The
Master rested awhile. A devotee sat on the end of the small couch and
gently stroked his feet. The Master said to him softly: "That
which is formless again has form. One should believe in the forms of God
also. By meditating on Kāli the aspirant realizes God as Kāli. Next
he finds that the form merges in the Indivisible Absolute. That which is
the Indivisible Satchidananda is verily Kāli."
After
a while Adhar said humbly to the Master: "Sir, you haven't been to our
place for a long time. The drawing-room smells worldly and everything
else appears to be steeped in darkness."
Master
(to Mahima): "What I said about
aspirants practising continence is true. Without chastity one cannot
assimilate these teachings.
"Once
a man said to Chaitanya: 'You give the devotees so much instruction. Why
don't they make much progress?' Chaitanya said: 'They dissipate their powers in
the company of women. That is why they cannot assimilate spiritual
instruction. If one keeps water in a leaky jar, the water escapes little
by little through the leak."
Mahima
and the other devotees remained silent. After a time Mahima said,
"Please pray to God for us that we may acquire the necessary
strength."
Master: "Be on your guard even now. It is difficult, no
doubt, to check the torrent in the rainy season. But a great deal of
water has gone out. If you build the embankment now it will stand.